Obituary

Colleen Mary Okros (nee O’Gorman) passed away on 4 September 2018.  A constant in Alan’s life since they met in high school at age 16; she was the very proud mother of daughters Jennifer and Michelle and equally proud of both families: Jen’s husband Dave and grandsons Dillon and Jordan; Michelle’s husband Matt and granddaughter Kaylee. She is survived by her father Bill O’Gorman and brother Tim and was pre-deceased by her mother Rita. Born in Ottawa, she grew up in a series of RCAF locations as Bill did a number of ‘touch and go’s’ including Townsville Australia before landing in Winnipeg where she met and married Al.  She then shifted to following a second military path with another dozen moves. Her focus was always making sure Jen and Michelle got established with each move; ‘schools and pools’ were the key criteria for picking the house each time. An avid reader, her e-book was always in her purse fully loaded, fully charged.  She constantly had a jigsaw puzzle on the go; in part as she was determined to show Al the right way to do them but mainly as they were a great place for quiet conversations when family or friends visited.  A cat lover since Australia, the norm was two in the house and always adopted from the Humane Society.  A gracious hostess who enjoyed having friends and new acquaintances to dinner or organizing large gatherings, she knew the importance of providing opportunities for colleagues especially Al’s Personnel Selection Officer community to socialize. She always enjoyed an annual trip out to BC to visit with Al’s parents Dick and Aileen and her extended Okros family. The organizer of cards for birthdays and anniversaries, all the dates were carefully stored in “Mom’s doohickey”.  When finally given the chance after nineteen moves to pick where she wanted to live, she chose the condo in downtown Toronto.  From this vantage point, she enjoyed the city including restaurant dinners each night and the flexibility of ‘nothing living in the condo’ which allowed frequent travelling including recent years of escaping Toronto’s (mild) winters and early sunsets in January thru March replicating the condo lifestyle in downtown Waikiki. Colleen has left us far, far too soon but her love and memories will live on.  A visitation will be held at Cardinal Funeral Home, 366 Bathurst Street on Monday, September 10 from 5 to 8 PM with a service at the same location Tuesday, September 11 at 11 AM.  In lieu of flowers, the family would welcome donations to the Humane Society or Breast Cancer Research.  

Visitation

Date
September 10, 2018
Location
Cardinal Funeral Home Bathurst
Time
05:00 PM - 08:00 PM

Service

Date
September 11, 2018
Location
Cardinal Funeral Home Bathurst Chapel
Time
11:00 AM

Cremation

Date
September 11, 2018
Location
Evergreen Crematorium
Time
 
Memo

Private Cremation

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August 01, 2019
Brian Meilleur
As my first love I truly am devastated by this and saddened and heart broken more than you know, I cried. Colleen was my first love with many many wonderful experiences with her. Sadly missed and regret that I was not there as I to live in Toronto
October 14, 2018
Judy O'Gorman
I just learned of Colleen's passing and wish to send my condolences to Uncle Bill, Tim and Colleen's husband and their families. I have fond childhood memories of family visits. My deepest sympathy to all.
September 11, 2018
Larry and Wendy Grandmaison
Wendy and I are so sorry to hear of Colleen's sudden passing. We enjoyed spending time with Colleen at your house parties, PSOA events and TTCP travels around the world . She was never without a smile. Our deepest sympathies to you all.
September 11, 2018
Deanna Messervey and Peter Arnold
We are deeply saddened by your family's unexpected loss. Colleen's kindness has touched the lives of many. Our hearts go out to you during this difficult time.
September 09, 2018
M. Katharine Berlinguette
I am deeply sorry for your loss of Colleen. Your family is in my heart during this difficult time. Should there be anything I can do in the days ahead, I am here for you all.
September 08, 2018
Jean Snow
Dean and I wish to send our sincere condolences. Thinking of you all at this difficult time and sending our love